that has left you feeling . . . . stuck, lost, disconnected and asking "Where to from here?"

You are not alone. I've been there too.

My Journey from Loss to Purpose

I understand the profound courage it takes to rebuild your life from the ground up when a life changing event happens. I am walking that path myself right now.

A couple of years ago when I was 62, not one but two events happened in my life that knocked me to my knees. 

A 'Life Changing' year 

In February 2023, I made the difficult decision to close what I thought was my 'last passion business' when it was no longer financially viable.

After decades of self-employment, I went on a mission to find paid work that would ignite my excitement and match my capabilities—but when those dream opportunities didn't materialize, I did what I've always done: I adapted and took a job I knew I could do sitting on my hands.

Then, in July 2023, my world changed forever. My husband of 44 years died unexpectedly. He wasn't just my life partner—he was my best friend, business partner, and the main breadwinner. We had been building our dream together on a lifestyle block in New Zealand, creating a home and life that reflected our shared vision for what we thought was the last part of our life.  Suddenly, I found myself alone with an unfinished house, no income and an uncertain future.

Moving from 'We to Me'

This process of going from 'We to Me' has been levelling - Not being 'single by choice' but with the opportunity of looking to a new life ahead, has been painful on every level.

The months that followed were a journey of profound grief, doing what had to be done and working on establishing a new normal.  I finished building our house - a testament to my determination to honour what we started together, with the realisation it was now all up to me.

My journey has been Holistic - Mind, Body & Soul

Through this journey I have experienced and have come to firmly believe "We are the masters of our own life" - Mind, Body & Soul work together to show us that, "the answers to living our best life come from within"

After lots of soul searching, I came to the conclusion a year ago, that 'it was time' to let it all go! The old Dream, the house, the possessions, the life I had been living up to now. 

The silver lining

I had come to understand. these life changing experiences allowed me to move forward into a new life of freedom, I would not have thought possible before.   Now, I am selling my home and everything in it, starting a new chapter and following my new dream to work from anywhere in the world.

From Loss to Purpose - Finding 'My Own Tribe' and helping you to find yours

Through the losses, I have experienced, I have come to believe, that Humans are not meant to be alone, and yet I feel we seem to be rapidly moving more and more to a life of loneliness and isolation. Ironically,  at a time of crisis,  it seems easier to withdraw within ourselves to 'lick our wounds' then put ourselves out there. It appears like there is a whole internet full of people with 'The answers' - what we need to work out is what are the questions I need to ask myself 

I believe, that this is an exciting time in our World, where we get to chose 'Our Own Tribe' Being with and connecting with people we resonate with, I have found to be the key to 'Wholeness' 

I am now on a mission to follow my true calling: helping women like me navigate life-changing events and emerge stronger, more authentic, and more alive than ever before. Finding their purpose and living the life that were meant to live.

My Mission - To help others get 'Unstuck' 'Connected' and find their 'Passion' and to choose feelings of 'Love over Fear'

I believe experiencing life right now as a Human Being on earth, was a choice we all made. We have been taught to think life is complicated, but it is simple . . . Our emotions at any moment come from either 'LOVE or FEAR' which we choose is also a choice

Mind Over Matter was born from my own transformation. I've learned that our most challenging moments often become the catalyst for our greatest growth. Through my journey of loss, rebuilding, and reinvention, I've discovered that we have the power to create an authentic new life filled with passion—no matter our age or circumstances.

I'm here to guide women who, like me, are ready to focus on living their best life after a significant life change. Whether you're facing loss, career transition, empty nest syndrome, or simply feeling called to find out or rediscover who you are, I understand the unique challenges and incredible opportunities that come with major life transitions.

My Approach

I combine my decades of Mind, Body, Spirit experiences and skills with newly acquired tools, to offer you comprehensive support.  I use a number of mainly energy based modalities that I have used  and  experienced their transformative power first hand, during my own life journey. I do not use a 'One size does not fit all' approach. that allows us to work with what resonated best with you on your journey. 

Your New Chapter Begins Now

If you're ready to transform challenge into opportunity, loss into growth, and uncertainty into possibility, I'm here to walk alongside you. I know from experience that it's never too late to create a life that feels authentic, passionate, and deeply fulfilling.

Your mind truly is more powerful than any obstacle. Let's discover together just how extraordinary your next chapter can be.